Personal Wellbeing

Feeling Self-Conscious? Get Rid of These 10 Phrases

October 5, 2022
The Wellness Tribe

Confidence is the key! You can enhance your work-life balance, relationships, and general quality of life by being confident and believing in yourself. Although self-worth is undoubtedly an important component of confidence, it is not the same thing as confidence.

While self-confidence is about being driven and believing in yourself, self-worth is more closely tied to forgiving and embracing oneself. They are, therefore, essentially two sides of the same coin. But both are essential to having a positive connection with yourself and feeling good about yourself.

But we all have that inner voice that influences everything we say or do. If we let it, it might undermine our self-confidence, make us feel inferior, or both. In the end, we find ourselves failing to reach our goals.

If you want to think more positively and feel more confident, here are 10 negative phrases to stop using.

1. "I must complete it."

Instead, say: "I get to do that."

Your attitude will significantly alter if you substitute just one little word. You start to see things more as opportunities than as obligations as a result. So even though the work is unpleasant, it may help you learn new things and lead to opportunities.

2. "I cannot accomplish it"

Instead, say: "I'll do my best to accomplish that."

Keep going until you've even started! When you convince yourself that you can attempt, you not only give yourself an opportunity to succeed but also lower your bar for success by not having unreasonable expectations.

3. "I ought to do it."

Instead, say: "I'll take care of it." (Or, depending on your perspective, "won't do")

The word "should" is restrictive and puts pressure on us. Regain control by doing so. Get rid of the "should" and make your own decisions by deciding whether or not to do anything.

4. "Why am I going through this?"

Instead, ask: "What am I learning from this?"

You may transform something that is bothering or disturbing you into something that can lead you to more extraordinary things by asking yourself what you are learning. You're merely looking for the positive in what can be a difficult situation; you're not moaning.

5. "I should never have."

What to say instead: "I know [X] because I did it."

When you reframe this idea, you start to consider the positive outcomes that resulted from actions you first believed you shouldn't have taken. For example, you could have made a new friend or learned something admirable about yourself.

6. "I messed up."

What to say instead: "This effort failed."

Consequently, it's possible that an endeavor you undertook went differently than planned. You either still need to obtain the desired promotion or the new customer. However, you are being harsh to yourself if you tell yourself that you failed, and that's it. Keep in mind that there will be future chances.

7. If only I'd done [X]

How about saying nothing?

Everybody has had "if only" moments. For example, "If only I had brought up my suggestion at that meeting," or "If only I hadn't responded in that manner to that interview question." However, this is irrational reasoning. You're simply complaining and coming up with reasons—you're not learning from the past.

8. "This is just too difficult."

Instead, Say: "I don't comprehend this right now." 

You are presenting a new difficulty as an unchanging reality when you tell yourself right away that you will never be able to understand it. This implies that you're gently telling yourself that you can't develop or evolve, which is absurd, of course. We are all still growing.

9. "It isn't fair,"

What to say instead: "I can handle it regardless!"

Yes, there are moments when life seems unfair, but that doesn't mean you have to keep telling yourself that mantra repeatedly until you give up. Instead, face that perceived injustice head-on and search for answers that will lead you to your desired destination.

10. "It won't ever change."

What to say instead: "I can adjust how I handle this."

Another instance of moving from the passive to the active is this. First, take control of the circumstance. Do you believe it is immutable? Then alter your perspective on it and your ideas on it!

Emotional Wellbeing

How to Deal with Burnout: A Guide for Team Leaders

September 25, 2022
The Wellness Tribe

Many employees feel the shift to remote work has been a welcome change from the in-office routine despite the uncertainty surrounding COVID-19. In contrast, for others, the disadvantages of remote work became apparent as weeks turned into months and months into a year.

If you have access to the internet 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and don't need to commute, separating work and personal life can be challenging. Late night work and weekend work become more common. Our survey found that 77% of employees have experienced burnout. If staffing levels are cut, workloads increase and burnout quickly become a reality.

The good news is that it is preventable. Employee engagement through an employee wellness program is one important component. Employees that are engaged are happier and more productive. Greater resiliency benefits the organisation as well. However, effective tools and consistent efforts are required to keep staff engaged, reduce burnout, and guarantee that everyone is working toward the same goals.

Here are six strategies to help employees avoid burnout, increase employee engagement, and build resiliency.

Facilitate Better Communication

Facilitate Better Communication
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It is necessary to communicate with your employees to understand their perspectives, difficulties, and perceptions of the organisation and management. Assessments should not be restricted to once a year. More frequency and consistency are crucial in mixed work environments, where employees may feel like they are working in a vacuum. Employees should be able to communicate through all channels available to avoid mental health issues that may arise from isolation.

Small chat groups and meet-ups like virtual lunchrooms and happy hours, as well as one-on-one meetings centred on progress and goals, are all examples of communication touchstones. You can create connections through them, unwind, reduce loneliness, and spot other people who are struggling. But, again, this could help you intervene before things get worse.

"Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence." - Sheryl Sandberg

Allow Employees to Take Time Off.

In many organisations, downtime must be considered to meet demand. Although the redistribution of work may be complex, downtime cannot be ignored. Provide employees with the option of taking breaks, personal days, or vacations when necessary.

Your company's typical working hours should be clearly communicated to employees. In addition, they should be encouraged to turn off their phones and laptops when they are not working. Recognising that they have the right to separate work and personal life will encourage employees to do so. In order to motivate employees to do these things, you might want to introduce some employee wellness initiatives. 

Even short breaks throughout the day can help improve their mood and productivity. Make it clear to your team members that they should not check their emails while on vacation. Find someone to cover their position if it is essential. Upon their return, they will be well-rested and ready to work.

Make Collaboration Easier by Investing in Tools.

Make Collaboration Easier by Investing in Tools.
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Retention requires high levels of engagement and communication. Employees don't quit their jobs because they're awful. They leave lousy managers behind them. Organisational goals are more likely to be achieved by employees who clearly understand their responsibilities and are supported in fulfilling them.

Using employee engagement and performance management technology can help to boost productivity, knowledge sharing, and cooperation. Engagement will close the gap by providing coaching and feedback to both in-office and remote employees, connecting individual and team objectives to the organisation's strategic priorities.

Concentrate on the “Why”

Burnout is typically caused by a gap between a person's values and tasks. Although you are worried and exhausted, you continue to work, forgetting the reasons you joined the company or job in the first place. There is a risk of harm from it. 

Creating a shared sense of why is a task for any leader must determine why we are motivated to complete the goal. As a leader, it is your responsibility to energise your team. Remember the purpose and why it is crucial for the business and your customers. People are more likely to be satisfied with their jobs if they share common beliefs and connections.

Commit to Mental Health and Empathy

There is increasing recognition that mental health is vital for individuals, groups, and society. Moreover, those their leaders support through empathy are more likely, to be honest and accurate. 

When companies build stronger relationships with their employees, employees report it improved mental and physical health by 23% and 17%, respectively. Companies that provide holistic support to their employees report an increase of 21% in high performers. Additionally, employees feel heard and validated, resulting in a more productive work environment and a happier mind body soul.

Prioritise Your Own Health.

Before you can help your team members manage their stress, you must work on your own. Consider how you can help your employees get what they need instead of hunkering down and focusing" on your task.  

The best start is by taking care of your physical and emotional health first; you need to take care of yourself. Get enough sleep at night, eat healthfully, exercise regularly, meditate, and find another person to vent to who isn't "your boss.". Taking care of oneself is more than a luxury; it is a necessity.

Corporate

Reshaping Corporate Norms: How to Craft a Blameless Culture

June 1, 2023
Mohit Sahni

Our collective journey in life is replete with the occasional slip-up. We've all been there, forgetting the pot on the stove, leaving the hair straightener on in a rush, or recalling a friend's dinner invitation only when lunching the next day.

Do we criticize ourselves for these lapses? Highly unlikely.

Throughout the corporate world, errors and missteps are inevitable. As the founder of a company that focuses on corporate wellness, I want to emphasize that the way we react to these mistakes determines the course of our team's culture. Casting blame and criticism only breeds fear and distrust. Our aim is to cultivate an environment where mistakes are viewed as learning opportunities, revealing valuable insights into potential flaws in our systems, procedures, and processes. We affectionately term this the "no-blame work culture."

Why is this critical, you may ask? As you climb the ladder in your career, managing larger teams and influencing the entire organization's culture, this mindset becomes indispensable.

The Quest for a No-Blame Culture

In our research, we endeavored to explore the methods leaders employ to create blameless cultures within their teams. We focused on companies we have worked with throughout India and are vocal advocates of no-blame cultures, examining their core principles, mission statements, public statements, and leadership strategies. 

In total, we connected with twenty-six first-time managers and fourteen HR professionals over half a year, gleaning insights into the mechanics of constructing a no-blame culture, with topics ranging from fostering accountability sans blame to promoting transparency and encouraging growth from mistakes.

Our findings were enlightening. A blameless culture's foundation rests on communication and transparency. As a leader, establishing clear expectations, addressing mistakes candidly, and admitting personal errors are critical to fostering a blameless culture.

Creating a Haven for Learning and Growth

It may come as a surprise, but a significant number of managers try to obscure their mistakes – about 88% of the ones we interviewed confessed to doing so. More importantly, prioritizing "blame avoidance" over learning and growth was observed to drastically dampen the team's motivation and productivity.

To counteract this, we propose adopting a clear "no-blame" policy. Make your team feel safe by acknowledging the inevitability of mistakes in group and one-on-one meetings. During these discussions, encourage team members to share their experiences, their recovery measures, and the lessons they drew from their errors.

"We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes – understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success." – Arianna Huffington

Creating a Culture of Transparency

A blameless culture thrives on openness and fairness. To make this possible, it's essential for organizations to implement transparent systems for documenting mistakes and the actions taken in response. A well-documented protocol for handling different types of errors ensures fairness and consistency across the organization.

In a blameless culture, transparency isn't just about documenting mistakes—it also means celebrating the efforts made to rectify them. For example, recognition programs can be set up to celebrate employees who successfully turn around a mistake or make significant strides in preventing future incidents. This not only motivates employees to take ownership of their actions but also empowers them to take risks, knowing that their efforts will be appreciated and rewarded.

Moreover, transparency helps cultivate trust, as it demonstrates the company's commitment to fairness and its dedication to learning from mistakes. When employees see their leaders admitting their errors, it fosters a sense of trust and mutual respect. This is a cornerstone of a blameless culture, as it helps reduce the fear of being singled out and encourages more open dialogue about errors and learning opportunities.

Rewarding Lessons Learned

A culture of knowledge-sharing results in fewer mishaps and enhances team collaboration. Encourage such a culture by rewarding employees who share their learnings from mistakes. You could create a "failure wall" where employees share their experiences or kick-start team check-ins with a discussion of a "lesson of the week."

By creating a workplace where setbacks are treated as stepping stones, you foster a culture of innovation, drive progress, and help employees learn from mistakes without fear of repercussions. This type of culture ensures that mishaps are quickly identified, analyzed, and turned into learning opportunities, setting the team on a path to resilience and prosperity.

Teaching a Proactive Attitude

An essential aspect of building a blameless culture is fostering a proactive attitude among team members. This attitude encourages employees to anticipate potential problems and take steps to mitigate them before they occur.

One way to nurture this attitude is by providing regular training and development programs that equip employees with the knowledge and skills to identify potential issues. For instance, our company, The Wellness Tribe, offers sessions that focus on critical thinking, problem-solving, and decision-making, enabling your team to foresee potential hurdles and address them effectively.

Another strategy is to create a platform where employees can share their insights and suggestions for improving processes and systems. This not only helps identify potential improvements but also boosts employees' confidence, giving them a sense of ownership and involvement in the company's progress.

Closing Thoughts

A proactive culture goes hand in hand with a no-blame culture, as it encourages employees to take calculated risks, learn from mistakes, and continuously improve. By promoting a proactive attitude, companies can make their teams more resilient and adaptable, making them better equipped to face future challenges.

In essence, as we strive to cultivate this no-blame culture, we at The Wellness Tribe are committed to ensuring that you and your employees not only feel safe to make mistakes but also learn, grow, and thrive from them.

And that, we believe, is the true essence of corporate wellness.

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